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Bahamian Men Cite Bible as Proof That Husbands Cannot Rape Their Wives

Posted by Dave Nichols on August 27, 2009  in 
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A report on a new Bahamian law which was aimed at stopping marital rape (a law which has not yet been passed) has been making the rounds as outrage grows over the comments made by men cited in the report. Often using the Bible as proof that men cannot rape their own wives, some of the comments are straight out the Stone Age.

Elvis Russell told the Journal that he does not support the bill either because there is no such thing as rape within a marriage.

"Even if a woman says no to her husband it still can't be considered rape because she is his wife. He already paid his dues at the church and she already said 'I do,' so from then on, even if [a man] forces sex on his wife, it isn't rape," he said.

"I disagree with the bill because I disagree that a man can rape his wife. The Bible tells me that a man's body is his wife’s and her body is his. How could he rape her?" asked Ms. Sweeting.

"If a man wants to have sex with his wife he is supposed to [have sex with her] regardless of what the circumstances [are]. I don’t see why he should be charged with raping his own wife, she is never supposed to say no," said Ms. Clarke.

"If I were married and my husband wanted to have sex with me I wouldn't stop him, [because] I'm not supposed to, even if I was tired or feeling sick, I wouldn't tell him no."

There are some rational responses in the article, thankfully, but yet again, the Bible is used as a primary source for institutional evil, in this case belief that a husband cannot rape his wife. Does the Bible provide some people with inspiration for good? No doubt. But it also clearly provides some people with inspiration for evil.

If you look at the map above, you can see the countries which have outlawed marital rape (shaded in pinkish purple). What is striking is just how many places in the world still allow husbands to rape their wives. Many of these nations are undoubtedly religious and use scriptural doctrines to deny that marital rape can even occur. I don't know what China's excuse is, nor why many Eastern European nations have failed to enact laws protecting wives (what's up, Greece?). Regardless, the idea that wives are owned property may not be derived from scriptural sources, but this notion has absolutely been preserved in the literal interpretations of various scriptural passages, leaving millions of women the world over forced to endure marital rape. Welcome back to the Stone Age.

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